Happy Monday everyone!!
So tomorrow is Valentine’s Day and just like every year the world has gone batshit crazy about it. Everywhere you look is red and chocolates and articles on how to find a date, so I am here to tell that: YOU DON’T NEED ANYONE TO MAKE YOU HAPPY.
Now don’t get me wrong, I am all for love and a happy relationship and I love my husband with all my heart, but that doesn’t change the fact that I don’t believe you need to be in a relationship in order to find happiness. I don’t believe in finding someone just so you are not alone on a particular day of the year.
So many talk about the fact of being alone on this day because they have no one, but how many actually see the blessing in that? You are alone instead of being in a toxic relationship, you are not having your time wasted by someone who doesn’t respect you.
The only human relationship that matters in the path to finding happiness is the one you have with yourself, find the love within you before looking for love from outside sources. Find your approval within you. Once you have fixed the relationship within you then you will be able to truly appreciate someone that appreciates you.
Believe in your ability to make yourself happy this Valentine’s Day. Celebrate yourself, this week and every other week of the year. Fall in love with yourself and find your happiness before you look for it in someone else.
Life is too short, don’t waste trying to define yourself through a meaningless relationship.